I want to fall solidly into a clear taxonomic category. To have an easy label. I don’t like ambiguity when it comes to my own identity. But I suppose individual human gender and sexuality are not by nature so easy to define, or even for the person to understand him/herself.
The question arises: Are the ambiguities I feel a recently emerging phenomenon–something about me that’s changing–or are they simply something that I never noticed before?
I will write much, much more about this later.